after DDay of I am sorry. Now the story is that H didnt want to come home some nights (this from FIL to my Dad ????). And when the OW tried to start up a third time he immediately showed me the email and never responded. This is toxic. He was as blindsided by his feelings and A as I was. I was gone for 10 days and then back home and back to work which piled up when I was gone! This is a living HELL and its hard not to get dragged down into our own pit. The 12 year old is nice to me and likes me, but one day when he was pestering me about something like a 12 year old and I told him he should not worry about what he was worrying about and instead worry about something else, like his exams, and he shot up like an arrow and said, You are right and immediately left the room. 3. How can this phenomenon be explained? This whole mess is on him and its his responsibility to come home. I treated you cordially and respectfully in my reply and apology. We go to MC whom we just saw 3 days ago where my H says he loves me. But I did do lots of stuff right too. I cant explain the humiliation. TryingHard. As others have stated, so sorry you are going through this. Your blinders are off and you will see things more clearly. You tell it like it is. It occurred to me this morning that the controlling accusation is actually a projection. However, now Im back at home and just finished unpacking. They do not have the capacity to hold the space for me, for whatever reason. Ive done this sparingly, maybe 3 or 4 times now. The runaway spouse seamlessly slips into his or her life while the abandoned spouses life has been laid to ruin. It was our 25th anniversary (during round 2 of A which I had no idea was going on). Satori I am so sad for you. But for this commenter to invoke my grandchildren in her petty criticism is crossing the line with me!!! At this point, I received from her THE password that I had been asking for. You have you fighting for the M and business. Many critics of the mass media attacked the coverage as a "media circus". Lol my MIL was thrilled at my h and my impending divorce. He didnt have OW around he left b/c he couldnt live like in that environment and nothing being addressed anymore. But we are still talking around the issues so it doesnt feel over if you know what I mean. Thrill? All she had to do was make it to mid-November, and then her fate would be sealed. No longer cared. The reasons can be very different. Never an owner. I dont blame you. you fix your picker. We were talking about our day and he mundanely told me it was over. He knows it. The circle of trust is tiny!! On another note, I noticed that a certain website has become quite inspired (ahem!) However, having so many alternatives expresses the need to settle on what you have and try to make the best of it. No matter what happens you WILL get smarter and stronger. It will be so good for you. That is heartbreaking. There is hope. Divorce is the finality of the marriage. We are still here for you. 2. I am authentic and real. Look you e reached out. Sitting around waiting for some kind of epiphany from her is NOT going to happen. I meet my H in my 20s. Ive found instead of denying the emotion if you ride the wave it passes. Thats why I didnt say anything or ask where exactly he was going etc. Lol same response. The grieving process is hard and difficult. ? Aint nobody got time for that kind of talk. They will be getting married soon. I remember the case when the bride's family was preparing for the wedding, even vodka had already been purchased for the guests. Good for you!!!! She claimed $250,000 as her share of the house, and another $250,000 in punitive damages. He deserved everything I gave him. No other way to put things. She said (at the time when he first left our home) that I should be a realist that if he had been as bad as I said he was, that she would leave. ! Soooo nuts. Picture (very) cold feet stuck out of a snowball. I told my son she was having an affair. Only jerks cheat on and leave their wives. I used to tell my H if you think you found someone better than me come home and tell me. Inspired? But the fact that he is suddenly wanting a D after being unhappy for years? I call bullsh$/@ on that. You dictate how you feel and there are no apologies needed for how you feel to anyone. Unlike you, my H is only feeling entitled. Ive found instead of denying the emotion if you ride the wave it passes. brides can be under a lot of stress! Not interested. Thanks TH for reminding me I dont need to caretake this situation anymore. I keep crossing my fingers (and saying a prayer) at least that part will be over soon. He is digging a bigger hole for himself, but knowing that fact doesnt help me cut a win-win path for us both which is my preference as in: if no R then we each leave the M as whole people with a clear vision for our futures rather than destroyed. When I hung on the Cross, you were on my mind. TFW His lawyer also warned him about my bulldog lawyer and that divorce was not going to be fast or cheap. If my H is losing it I cant let my teen aged kids have a free for all too. Scary odd. Funny thing is I kept agreeing to a D every time he asked for it I just cannot figure out why he didnt leave. Id keep the conversations light and about business. Just like that. It just meant so much. He was trying to soften me up. Just being far far away is liberating while everything ticks along. I just think it needs more time to be total and sincere rather than a bandaid version. Thanks for the support. Its been a thing, Ill just say that. I couldnt leave my house. We tried to have a discussion about communication issues but he will not bear any part in it, just wants to say its all my fault / problem. Im going to try to feel my way into the right direction. We are dried up old hags. I think it is alcohol dependency or addiction / depression / possible exec burnout / OW ++ My mid life crisis (if you have to call it that) was to start my own business. I am also defamed and smeared. You still refuse to answer the question just as before. After 15 years this is an assumed thing but still in its ordinariness in many ways it is the most sacred of things to simply sleep with and beside someone night after night. I, of course was the lovely wife who helped her H move out. I yelled you should have answered your effing phone. I told him how I felt about my lost dreams and how devastating his A and leaving had been to me and how I could no longer trust him at all. Wish I could rely on any sort of consistency from him though! It may not translate as amusingly here in the re-telling, but in the context of it all, there was that hilarious / hysterical moment. They make out like they will of course. I sure hope Satori hasnt been run off from EAJ because of one commenters petty complaint. And this shit is painful for the cheater. Its never what they do and its always our reaction to it. I have to be honest when I told my H we were done he never once changed his mind or wavered in his commitment to me and R and our M. When I get furious I just talk in a low calm manner. So, by now it should be sinking in that if he doesnt R with me then his real problems are about to start. This is what I call the put on the bitch boot stage. Smh. Because that is what they have set in motion. After the wedding, everyday life begins, family and work absorb all the time. I wonder what he heard. All behavior is due to brain processes. I told him: H, this all might seem like a slow moving glacier, but it will pick up speed and inevitably become a large and fast moving snowball that could mow you down. (Ok I mixed my metaphors here but you get my drift!) Satori One should def NOT take comfort and think they can work from the point that their spouses cheating is an MLC. I wouldnt mention it if it was a non profit thing but Im pretty sure its a commercially beneficial situation. Personally, ones FOO issues is for THEM to figure out not the spouse. I also cant believe she actually knew he was having an affair. Unlike you I didnt have the insight and I made every mistake possible to try and save the M. And I would believe his hollow words and flip flopping back & forth between D and M. I keep hoping as time passes your H will WAKE UP!!! He said his greatest hope was to spend the rest of his days building our connection and future. But you need very good advice from an accountant as well as your lawyer. I may have a chance to stay in my M. But these people are all consumed in self interest and they are not giving H sane positive rational advice. My thing was to be dignified and to not lose it with my H, tbh I had no idea that once exposed in the A he would refuse to work on our M. I was taken aback 100%. Right now hes scared and or defensive and ashamed and scared. Id never heard of the A fog before but it makes total sense now Im living through his. Whether you reconcile or not.the grief can last a long time. At least 50 percent of all people getting married get a case of either cold feet or seem to have feet that want to run away from the altar. Too much onus on me the BS to pony up and be the good, responsible player even though Im the victim and falling apart. Lean on the those that love you and are trustworthy. I lost 16 lbs in 2 weeks if that tells you anything about my adrenal system at the time. And your H seems very concerned with HIS quality of life if you R. He doesnt seem as concerned about the quality of your M if you R.???????????????????????????????? I know it sounds crazy and maybe it is but I did it. Glad you found the humor in it. It was the hardest time in my life and it was a daily struggle to not lose it. Well as you can see Im getting up to speed now. STOP PLAYING HER GAME! I poured my grief into my creative endeavors. Usually, someone checked out of the marriage years ago. Turns out he was trying to end it w/ OW but she kept reeling him back in. But the OW explains the personality change too. Im still grieving at the loss of my marital innocence. This is an unselfish motive on your part. You are now the head of the household. And with that, my great, great grandmother swam out to the steamboat as her daughter watched her be pulled aboard by the crew. Im not a big talker on airplanes. The events I write of were recorded in a family journal, but my great, great-grandmothers perspective on why she did this will never be known. Satori should keep quiet and not open her too-smart-for-her-own-damn-good-mouth. I am only 4 weeks out since my DDay having been abandoned with no notice by my Runaway Husband of nearly 15 years of living together. It is different from a MLC affair since the wayward spouse in the runaway spouse syndrome scenario had checked out a long time ago, had been finished with the marriage a long time ago, and often already has a home to move into with the other person. It was a bit of the worm turning moment for me but I needed confirmation. Girl we have all been right where you are. It was work, I was being dramatic, he didnt follow the patterns of someone having an affair. Of course, he didnt reply so I said whatsapp is getting you in a world of trouble. He says (defensively) Im not in trouble and I reply Um, beg to disagree, but yes, you are as Skank Fever is potentially fatal and he replies: Um whats skank fever, I dont understand., To which I replied: Skank Fever. But here is an analogy I used last night. According to the BBC, Jennifer Wilbanks sold the media rights to her story to a New York City company for $500,000. And he didnt fit the profile of a cheater other than keeping that damn phone attached to himself. My neighbors must have thought there was a wounded animal in the woods. Probably somewhere in the middle, in this case. Maslows Hierarchy of Needs. I would practically freak out if I woke up and he wasnt in the bed. If Im good? Not coincidentally, as I write this, I have a headache. All i know is I exploded in anger and he has worked for 4 years making things better and trying to make amends. I honestly dont know who he is right now. Keep breathing and focus on you. Right now in his delusional state she is swaying him and controlling him but he is too blinded and stupid to see it. But even in my lucid moments, I am still shocked to my core at how I came to be here. The narrative has now become all justification for the A. We have had this discussion on this site in the past. (And yes, he is terrified of emotions: check.). But slowly, very slowly, things changed. If not maybe you need to contact his family and friends to find out what is going on. I mean, after the umpteenth time of asking for a batch of his receipts to be done etc so we can file taxes (nicely for at least 15-18 times) who am I supposed to be on the 19th-20th time of non cooperation Mother Theresa? Yes he wants a payout. Although a proposal is usually followed by yes! there may later come a time for no, or a whoa.Some would speculate that Priya was experiencing a post-traumatic stress reaction, or that she had a manic-depressive disorder, or maybe an anxiety disorder, as the result of a highly stressful event in her life. Its mystifying. It was the show's second Christmas special since its revival and the second Christmas special starring David Tennant as the Doctor. Puzzled, when I think of how everything re the M is now going to be totally different,regardless of the outcome, it makes me feel so upset. I was tested and challenged in so many ways. Ive got 15 years to show for my involvement. It is what bonds them together right now babe us vs wife bonding syndrome as I call it. I too wanted my ex to recognize her faults in this. He wasnt 50 but he sure said the same things he said when he decided to have another at 56. I dont know if MLC is diagnosable by an expert or if it even is described as a DSM in the psychology handbook like narcissism or cluster b personality etc. Will she forgive you? I cant be nice, it drives him away. It was a long and arduous process for him to understand what he had really done to me. But its the emotional abuse that is worse to me than the infidelity. And then race to 1000 beats a second. But instead our culture breeds secrecy and cheating and all about me as a way of dealing with issues and problems. But as things began to unravel between the two of them..I no longer quite know who to to believe. He made us all think he was having a nervous breakdown / depression / illness / Mid Life Crisis. I try to see that her abusive and unstable childhood contributed massively to the break up of our marriage and I also humbly look at the part I played in the divorce too. I got to the table late and it was set up so the women were togrther and the men on the other side. All of us here have heard the same thing from our confused cheaters. I had not experienced until the A began what people describe as walking on eggshells. Its an absolute lifeline. Over time you figure out a way to carry it, how to hold it etc. These were very trusted and old friendships to start with. No matter how hard I tried to convince myself, deep down I never thought my wife would come back to us. Sigh. Which he did because the alternative was going to be all out war and scorched earth. Not to mention everything he was risking. This is getting exciting. Not one little bit. One minute we are sailing along and the next thing I know I am treading water trying to keep my family together. The million-dollar question is why people just up and run away one day without giving their spouse a shred of warning. And then he leaves you and goes home and the OW takes over. Snake move, but then that is to be expected from a snake. He deleted again (in front of me). To answer your questions we have been married for 15 years. Ah yes TH, the crying on planes thing. Im thinking H will never get it in terms of the impact. Exactly what do you think is going on for me? Satori It answers the I dont know what to do problem perfectly. I cant watch a Brad Pitt film now because he is a cheater. The CS often forgets that the BS have choices to make as well. He moved back home two days later. You might be right. and now the rose colored glasses are off. Easy Peasy!!! Having familiarized himself with the problem, he will choose a technique that will be effective in combating the fear that corrodes the soul before the wedding. My father contracted covid and was in the ICU on a ventilator fighting for his life. I love her dearly for it and feel a very strong connection with her. And by standing up to her you will stop being a doormat and it may become more difficult for the A to continue. No anger, lots of love. It is meant for you and I am just the messenger. OMG SI I dont know what I would have done had I heard her name uttered in his sleep! When is everything going to be about me? I think you are wise to remove yourself from any contact that is not absolutely necessary. Im clearly not as important, I almost feel I was an escape route and a buffer zone from them and it probably looked good from the outside. Do not allow her access to your home. ! My response was Why didnt you just tell me in plain English. Satori. Not being selfish and mean and vindictive. She needed bringing down a few pegs, well actually she needed to be crushed. And when I got home he came over with my eldest son with whom I was very pissed at for his being all Switzerland. It came after I indicated one of the D outcomes and he stormed out. No hope for recovery. I hope you lawyer up and maybe talk to a therapist for support. No warning, no conversations , nope he was going to leave me to be with her. As always, thank you. I am leaving right now and driving to the bank. Whatever happened on that trip (and shortly before it when you picked up on things) well I doubt the outcome would be different unless you convinced him to see a Dr for his illness and everything else. Badass first have to apply in every situation and Im a big believer in choosing ones battles. Reasons to be cheerful! So yeah DDay put a stop to that and most everything else. I still have my regular job but this is my passion. Satori It hurts like a real BITCH!!! Child abuse has a permanent effect on the developing brain that lasts a lifetime. Who the hell wants to be anyones second choice? He couldnt handle the pain he caused me.again pretty standard. But this time I tell him I am D HIM!!! My grandfathers sister, bless her heart, was kind to the core and forgiving her own mothers foul behavior because of what she knew her own mother went through. Heres the thing I have learned, FWIW. I felt SO unsafe. I know what youre feeling being gone. Whats so hard? So he met me and we had coffees, dog walk, talking, walking in the park. Thanks again TFW for your clear perspective. And it always will be. My siblings and I were expected to perform well and there was not a lot of affection shown towards us. Satoriwho knows what lies your husband spun to his parents. I have a form of Tourettes now where I literally go fucking cheaters!! I feel your pain!!! I dont talk to any friends about this They set up an alternative life and once that setup is complete, they bailed. I pray I can be strong for him and help teach him to forgive his mom. My wife put me through hell for over a year of non-committal answers, resentment, ignoring me, meanness (I could keep adding things but you get the idea) and gas lighting/refusal to talk about her affair. He woke up and started crying b/c of the A and what he put me through. Challenging ones self is very empowering. When I finally stood up for myself, she split!! I feel like the OW is my MIL now. Thank you so much for replying to me. But he went to bat for me.it meant everything. Hes a mess. And that was right in the middle of the very worst, when it was H literally screaming down the phone like Veruca Salt (the greedy child in Willy Wonka! The people who get burned the most are the ones who have allowed their spouse to magically maintain a certain lifestyle without knowing how such a lifestyle is maintained or where the money comes from. I have finally lost my desire and willingness to do this anymore. needs to explain to me why they dont matter. Right for me and right if I intended to go forward in my marital relationship with my husband. Try taking some Melatonin and a hot cup of tea. Yes, the voice was talking to me. Im very lonely. If he projects then hes projecting the romance of it all. Stay strong, stay positive and look good for this. Most of all, I felt smothered by the darkness and utter hopelessness that I felt about the future. I coukd not tell you if he will do anything about it. In the meantime then TH you need to please put your magical wishing powers to work on Hs OW then! Insomniac. Although he left and never spoke to her again. NC all the way with strict business protocols adhered to. But my advice to her ex husband, David K, MI, she is a horrible person. Why didnt you respond to my message?. This is all about their seed money for the two of them. Not selfish or mean but I no longer rely on him to be the source of my happiness. The clouds, the wind, the morning frost. Pretty sure he was drunk when he said this one. gggggrrrr, is NOT helping HIS cause. Let him squirm. She would just politely detach. I think its quite nervy that you have. Otherwise, an infinite costly search might be the fate of many lovers (or those aspiring to be so). Prior to this she believed she was in a mutually supportive, loving, and monogamous relationship. They just worked together. No desire to be in M. Zero care factor for me personally. How could he ever be taken at his word, but just like that he was so adamant that he could be trusted. Especially if you have no idea if he will continue to support you in the next months. Look up the word in the dictionary and theres a picture of me ????. Seeing that same anger and rage in others going though this nightmare was validating and comforting in some strange way. So has your family. LOL. It most likely would have destroyed the business as I wasnt about to be fed payments over years. TFW posted earlier about the personality thing with her nephew and H where you can say something and theyll say no but they will come back to you later with the suggestion as if it was entirely their idea. I was done. You deserve so much better. His family (I believe) is contributing to this. Theres lots to read on that and we all know the books if you are interested. She called me that night how he was lying on the sofa crying. And then he would start acting like a man. It was super early and I was on my first coffee but when she came up to me I burst into tears. This reveals their true character. But not enough shock to finish the job. And called my lawyer. Is it drugs or depression or some addiction or some other mental issue? If I NEVER hear those words again in my life. I have been giving a lot of thought to your questions. his family telling him trite crap like well son if youre not happy you need to move on because well Satori is such a bossy britches after all and we hate that our little prince charming isnt happy cause thats all we ever wanted bull shit. My H has never used drugs or drank to excess (except once and I believe that event was the pre-cursor to his A). Be mysterious about that. There we are fat and sassy and just livin life and trying to be the best versions of husband, wife, father, mother, friend, brother, employee and this freak comes along and turns all our good intentions on its ear!!! I know you dont have the answers A or no A his behavior is odd. See a lawyer. One of the things that differentiate runaway spouses from spouses caught in regular affairs is that the betrayed spouse simply did not feel it happening on any level. I turned over filing cabinets. Not a runaway bride, but was hired to work the wedding as a florist, many years ago. For me: Anxiety / depression / codependency i.e. They have the first contact which is nothing. You have done more for me than you realize. Just let me know ???? How am I coping? I couldnt go through it again. Finally, if you are or if you have been in this situation, I highly recommend getting professional help immediately and also reading Vikki Starks book Runaway Husbands. It's important to know! Why would anyone stay and be totally disregarded and disrespected?? It makes me wary that H is just cashing out his chips (my accountant said that!!) But, it will give you more control of your interaction with him. So, if that includes dropping an F bomb now and then, I have no problem with that. Such bullshit. And Ive eaten a lot of shit sandwiches. Its hard to feel joy and I used to have a lot. I cant tell you how many times I asked myself why are you doing this to yourself! It has helped take a step back so many times..and sometimes its amazing how that can change the dynamics of what is going on. If the target is tricked into believing the FALSE narrative that this person is a vulnerable victim they are left suspecting that the manipulations, insults, transgressions and abuses they experienced CANT be real right? Even in a case where someone like my H claims he wants the OW so that he can have someone to treat with disrespect, their pride in their relationship with us is based on treating us with respect. My great, great grandmother was a woman of French Creole/mulatto descent from Louisiana. It was the fact that our counselor was peeling back the layers of lies and was about to expose her affair. 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